It is better to marry someone who is similar to you rather than someone who is differnt from you

What is marrige? It is the sharing of life with another person, by sharing your problems and spending your life with the other person. It means that you have to spend your life with another person who is going to e part of your life. Generally speaking, according to me, it is better to marry someone who is similar to you, rather than someone who is different from you. Because the person who is similar to you is going to understand your feeling and situations in a better way, rather that a person who is completly different from you.

Firstly, people always need someone to share their good as well as bad time with someone they believe. They ofen feel lonely when no one is their for them. That is the reason that people get into the relation of marrige, so that they can share their feeling with someone. So they ofen prefer to get married with the people with whom they have some similarity, it can be either profession, nature, lifestyle or anything. As for example my parents, both have the same profession, they both are the doctor. The got married 22 years ago and still in the relationship of the marrige with each other. As they have similar profession, they understand each other very well. They know what difficulties a doctor have to face. If my father have some problem with any of the matter about his patients, then he can concern to my mother about it and vice-versa. Due to having the same profession, their way of living is very similar to each other and generally do have conflicts on some opinion.

On the other hand, if peeple have difference in their believes, they generally starts expecting a different behaviour for their partner, that they want. But due to difference in their thoughts, they have to make a choice, either to satisfy their partner or to them self, which become generally the start of the conflicts between the two. As for example, my uncle and aunt, they have totally opposite nature. They got married 5 years ago and then seprate from each other after 2 years. At the start, they tried to make happy to each other by doing according to the other's need but as time goes on. They faced problems to satisfy each other. Therefore, they get a decision to seprate and discontinue their marrige.

In conclusion, by summing up the above argument, it is revealed that it is better to marry someone who is similar to you, rather that some one who is different from you. As marrige is the most important part of your life, you need a partner that understand you, neither someone that differ you. So that you can have a happy life after marrige, neither a life full of complications.